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      <image:caption>Bringing it back to our routes with a homegrown graphic: Better equals Decide Squared times Learn, divided by Plan plus Follow squared, all multiplied by Assessing it all.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Figure 1: “12+ Strain” is a day when I’ve worked out above average the day before. “Alcohol” is when I’ve consumed the day before (it lets you tell the app how many so you can track that as well). “Irritability” is a day when I’ve journaled I was a bit hot and bothered the day before.</image:caption>
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